Friday, December 28, 2007
Tiempo Libre - Free Time!
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Christmas Celebrations
Christmas Eve started with a big turkey dinner at the hostel. There were about 10 of us, from the United States, Switzerland, Germany, Brasil, Australia and Peru. Arturo has 'discovered' that Brasilians call turkey peru (this is pavo in Spanish) because the turkey originated in Peru. I don't know if I believe this claim so I looked online and didn't find anything. Arturo has yet to provide me with a credible (or any) source to prove this. However, it is true that Brasilians called turkey Peru and I will leave it at that.
After dinner at the hostel, we went to Arturo's uncle's house for more of the same. His parents, brother, uncle and aunt and cousins all joined together to celebrate the holiday and, as promised, at midnight there were fireworks, cheering, champagne and a lot of kissing all around. Then, at midnight (!!!) dinner was served. After we ate, the kids were woken up, and presents were handed out. At about 3:30 a.m., his parents drove us back to our apartment where we promptly passed out.
One part about this tradition that I really like is that you don't have to buy presents for everyone. You exchange presents with your immediate family or the people you are closest to. No obligation to find some small, but nice, but inexpensive present for every single breathing being. We gave his mom new clothes, books to his dad, and a really cool laptop adapter set to his brother, as well as gifts to the young kids. His brother brought some food, and we brought three bottles of wine. Surprisingly, I also got some gifts myself. Arturo's brother gave me a fantastic t-shirt from Abercrombie and Finch, a pretty expensive brand here. He called Arturo a few weeks ago to ask my size. This made me feel very much a part of the family and means a lot to me. However, as nice as my t-shirt was, the star present was definitely Arturo's gift to me. He bought an incredible necklace/earring set from some designer he knows here in Lima. It's polished silver, and a piece of special wood from the jungle. It's beautiful and definitely the nicest piece of jewelry I own (perhaps it's time I stopped buying the $1 earrings on the street!).
More than just presents, though, what I enjoyed most was being part of Arturo's family. Everyone was friendly, gracious and warm. They even said that they were impressed with my Spanish (which, of course, made me like them immediately). It felt like any normal holiday, talking, laughing, catching up on old times, and getting to know new people (me!). I felt so comfortable. When I was telling Arturo how much I enjoyed the night and how sweet it was for his brother to buy me a gift, he said "of course, you're part of the family." (Is it too cheesy to write how great my boyfriend is?)
Christmas morning, December 25, we enjoyed a relaxed morning and delicious lunch (thanks to a big surprise and very appreciated food delivery from his brother and fiance in NJ). Then, Arturo went to the hostel and I went...drum roll, please...paragliding! An Australian guy, Pete, who has stayed in the hostel on and off for the past six months offered to take me (ok, he didn't exactly offer, I sort of asked - but he said yes!). Marco, who works at the hostel, went with me. I didn't feel nervous at all, even while Pete was connecting me to all the straps and tightening the helmet. Then, just before we took off, he started talking about how I shouldn't worry and it was safe. This, of course, made me a bit nervous. But, within two minutes we were floating in the air, sailing over the sea, the cliffs, the buildings of the city and it was incredible. I left the camera on the ground so all I needed to do was sit back, relax and enjoy. Many people feel queasy their first time. Luckily, this didn't happen with me and Pete told dirty jokes, old paragliding stories, and spun us up, down and around. It was beautiful and peaceful. Then, just as my stomach started to react, we cruised back to the ground and landed gently on the grass. I decided that instead of a car, we should buy two para gliders, but Arturo thinks that might be a difficult way to commute to work. I think we could make it work...
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Holiday Cheer
First, school ended and I don't have to work until Feb. 18. Yeah!
Second, I've been hanging out more with my friend Kim. This has been a great outlet to feel like I have my own life here. We went Christmas shopping together, have been walking on the weekends when we can, and talk on the phone regularly. It's starting to feel less like we're getting to know each other and more like we're just friends. Which is really, really nice.
Third, and most important, I went with Arturo to two reuniones (see below for more info.) and had a great time at both of them. One was with his close friends from school, grades K-12, and the other was with some friends from his university. Everyone was friendly and Spanish was flowing off my tongue (ok, that might be a bit of an exaggeration, but it was much easier). For the first time, I wasn't even aware of where Arturo was in the room. I just sat and talked...and it felt wonderful. Above is a photo of me deep in conversation -- in Spanish!
Along with this Holiday Cheer, I've realized that while the holiday season here is filled with much of the same commercial stuff, there are several Peruvians holiday traditions that continue to amaze me:
1) Reuniones
Reunion in Spanish means a meeting or gathering, but I think this isn't descriptive enough. It means you get together with friends/relatives and stay with each other until there is some major reason why you need to leave. Time is not an acceptable reason. If it's 3:00 a.m. and you don't have another reunion to go to, you just stay and talk. This idea is not only with close friends. If, for example, your company's holiday reunion is a lunch, you must go prepared to stay for many hours, possibly through dinner and into the night. (This idea extends to weddings where young and old stay out all night and the bride and groom must provide both dinner and breakfast for their guests)
2) Panetón
According to Wikipedia, panetón originated in Milan and comes with several different legends, many including romantic love, of course. I haven't heard any legends told, but I have realized that, whatever the reason, Peruvians are obsessed with getting their Christmas panetón. The dome-shaped bread is sweet and usually has some dried fruit or other delicious ingredients. However, it's just a sweet bread. I have been struggling to find out what the obsession is all about. For example, Arturo often receives clients from taxi drivers (they pick up foreigners at the airport and they need a place to stay). So, yesterday, we bought 20 panetónes for each driver. Every taxi driver I've had in the last two weeks has asked me if I've had panetón and if I love it.
3) Christmas Turkey
For the most part, people don't cook full, big turkeys in their house. It's something that is done for a special occasion. Here, everyone receives a voucher for a free turkey from the company they work for (yes, I received one from my school). There are special areas set up throughout Lima where you can go and claim your free turkey. Many people at school told me they give this voucher to their maids, as a big, frozen turkey can be more of a hassle than anything else. We went yesterday and the system is really incredible. In fact, it's one of the most organized things I've seen in Peru. Of course, my voucher (called a valet here) was for a 9 kg turkey and they only had 7 kg or 13 kg, for which you had to pay extra. Tricky, eh? Anyway, I think the most interesting part about the whole system is that most people don't actually cook the turkeys themselves. After you defrost the turkey, you bring it - in your own pan - to special turkey-baking places and pick it up about five hours later.
Now, I'm off to take a nap. At 5:00 we're having a Christmas dinner (complete with the turkey I got from my school) at the hostel, and then at 10:00 the family Christmas reunion begins. That's right: 10:00 p.m. is when it starts! Arturo told me we will most likely be finished around 2 or 3 in the morning...I think after my nap I'm going to get coffee!
Monday, December 17, 2007
The Best of Times...the Worst of Times
There have been some tough moments in Peru, but for sure the toughest was this past weekend. At the same time, though, it was an incredible weekend.
First, the incredible part...Every year, Arturo and his friends pitch in money to buy Christmas gifts for some small villages in the mountains. It's informal, but well organized. They get an official list of the names and ages of all school children in the village, and give each one a gift with his/her name. Every year is different depending on how much money there is or what is donated. For example, for the past 5 years, one baker has donated enough paneton (a special Christmas bread) for each child to have a piece. Other people give baseball hats with their company logos and others just donate money. This year, over 30 people made donations and a group of 20 went up north to visit the villages and hand out presents.
This was the amazing part.
We gather all the kids together, sing songs, get promises to study hard and be good, and then hand out gifts.
Of the 20 people who went on this trip (which was an 8 hour drive each way, including an overnight stay), only a handful spoke to me. Some not only didn't speak to me, but actually ignored me when I spoke. There was no friendly encouragement to speak Spanish and despite a one-on-one acknowledgement that it's difficult when 6 people are all speaking at the same time, using slang, and speaking quickly, no one made an attempt to speak to me slowly and clearly. Obviously, Arturo was there, but it was so busy that outside of the car trip, he really didn't see how I was treated and we had no time alone to speak. He also, in his own way, just tried to be encouraging by telling me that it's normal and I should just relax. This was not very comforting. Essentially, I arrived back home and burst into tears.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
A relaxing weekend
Arturo and I even went for a walk in our neighborhood. We realized that it's actually the first time we walked together without an agenda.
Friday, December 7, 2007
Checked off the To Do list!
First: the Fodor's work is finished! Many late nights, many full days and much moaning and groaning on my part, and it is completed and sent to my editor. He told me that he's sure to have some questions in January, but to go ahead and send in my invoice. So, maybe I'll get paid back all of that money I spent already!
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Almost done...but so far to get there...
I just cannot motivate to get this done...but, I am showered, dressed and at the computer at 7:00 a.m. on a Sunday after staying up to work until 1:00 a.m. (of course, this is after procrastinating most of the day and going out for a cup of coffee with a friend).
Arturo has been amazing, putting up with my crankiness and cooking for me. Which, of course, just makes me more cranky because I just cannot write this bloody chapter.
I'm sure it will get done. It must. It will. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can....
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Dad's Visit Part II
We did a lot of the usual touristy things...shopping, visiting a museum, eating out, walking around, etc. All the things I haven't had time for yet in Lima. Needless to say, I had a great time!
* El Museo Pedro de Osma. This museum is in Barranco, one of the oldest and best-preserved parts of Lima. Just being able to enter one of those huge, old colonial mansions was enough, but we also got to enjoy the current Baroque exhibit in addition to making Dad and Arturo stand in cheesy poses. The art, silver, gold and other pieces on display were fascinating, as well walking around the beautiful grounds.
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving
However, this was not the only 'celebration' going on this week. While Dad was in Puno/Lake Titicaca on the actual Thanksgiving day, he came back to Lima last night and we had a Thanksgiving meal together (or, rather, a version of a meal). At Dad's request, I made stuffing, as well as mashed potatoes and toasted chestnuts. As I had to work all day, there was no time to cook a turkey so we just had roasted chicken. Joining us was Elizabeth, an American woman from Maine who is here studying Spanish (she's been living at the hostel for the past two months). She brought delicious wine and dessert which helped make the meal that much better. And thanks to Dad, we had Thanksgiving plates and napkins.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Dad's Visit Part I
* 12:45 a.m. Alarm went off
* 1:00 a.m. Arturo left for the airport
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
My first guest
I'm really excited, but I was thinking about where we should go and realized that I don't know my 'new' city very well. I don't have a favorite restaurant in Lima to take him to. I don't have my favorite cafe. I just don't have my usual 'tourist route' of places to go with visitors (in fact, I've barely explored the city myself).
So, I've decided to accept that I won't be as good of a tour guide as I usually am, but that I should relax and enjoy my Lima with my dad (and pass the torch to Arturo).
Here's a photo of our last visit together in September.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Procrastination
(OK, enough procrastinating...back to work...)
Friday, November 9, 2007
Good worries
Saturday, November 3, 2007
At last -- tofu!
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Just a normal week in Lima
Monday, October 22, 2007
Staff Photos
Sunday, October 21, 2007
The Census Weekend
Friday, October 19, 2007
First Week of Work
Monday, October 15, 2007
The Trip North
Pease read below for a detailed account of the past week and a half.
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=9od46cm.3g2b53vy&x=0&y=-comwfv
I haven´t had time to sort through all the photos, but am sending this out now...because otherwise it will be another week until I finish.
(of course, you may look at the photos and read the blog, but I understand if you just skip to the photos)
We began our trip with an overnight bus to Chiclayo. We left at 9:30 p.m. and were supposed to arrive at 8:30 a.m. Instead, we awoke at our arrival time to discover that we were lost somewhere in Trujillo (a stop about three hours south of our destination). The driver was literally pulling over on the side of the road to ask other drivers. One of the other passengers went down to talk to the driver who explained "You see, the problem is that I'm lost." The entire bus could hear him say this and unanimously broke out in laughter and jokes. As if driving around in circles and stopping every five minutes to ask where to go wasn't enough clues that we were lost. Eventually, we got to our destination about four hours late.
We hopped in a cab and, after about five minutes, hired Pablo to drive us around for the day. We explained that we were updating a guide and we needed to go around the city to many hotels and restaurants. Of course, we didn't mention this was our first time doing this and, many hours later, we were all exhausted and realized this was more work than it sounds. We also quickly realized that three and four star hotels do not hand out free rooms to scrubby looking people who had clearly slept in their clothes (on the bus, though!). However, we did manage to find an affordable room at a place Pablo knew, had a semi-hot shower and finished almost all of the hotels and restaurants, as well as stopping at several of the sites and the Peru Information office for tourist information.