Friday, December 28, 2007
Tiempo Libre - Free Time!
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Christmas Celebrations
After dinner at the hostel, we went to Arturo's uncle's house for more of the same. His parents, brother, uncle and aunt and cousins all joined together to celebrate the holiday and, as promised, at midnight there were fireworks, cheering, champagne and a lot of kissing all around. Then, at
One part about this tradition that I really like is that you don't have to buy presents for everyone. You exchange presents with your immediate family or the people you are closest to. No obligation to find some small, but nice, but inexpensive present for every single breathing being. We gave his mom new clothes, books to his dad, and a really cool laptop adapter set to his brother, as well as gifts to the young kids. His brother brought some food, and we brought three bottles of wine. Surprisingly, I also got some gifts myself. Arturo's brother gave me a fantastic t-shirt from Abercrombie and Finch, a pretty expensive brand here. He called Arturo a few weeks ago to ask my size. This made me feel very much a part of the family and means a lot to me. However, as nice as my t-shirt was, the star present was definitely Arturo's gift to me. He bought an incredible necklace/earring set from some designer he knows here in Lima. It's polished silver, and a piece of special wood from the jungle. It's beautiful and definitely the nicest piece of jewelry I own (perhaps it's time I stopped buying the $1 earrings on the street!).
More than just presents, though, what I enjoyed most was being part of Arturo's family. Everyone was friendly, gracious and warm. They even said that they were impressed with my Spanish (which, of course, made me like them immediately). It felt like any normal holiday, talking, laughing, catching up on old times, and getting to know new people (me!). I felt so comfortable. When I was telling Arturo how much I enjoyed the night and how sweet it was for his brother to buy me a gift, he said "of course, you're part of the family." (Is it too cheesy to write how great my boyfriend is?)
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Holiday Cheer
First, school ended and I don't have to work until Feb. 18. Yeah!

Third, and most important, I went with Arturo to two reuniones (see below for more info.) and had a great time at both of them. One was with his close friends from school, grades K-12, and the other was with some friends from his university.
Along with this Holiday Cheer, I've realized that while the holiday season here is filled with much of the same commercial stuff, there are several Peruvians holiday traditions that continue to amaze me:
1) Reuniones
Reunion in Spanish means a meeting or gathering, but I think this isn't descriptive enough. It means you get together with friends/relatives and stay with each other until there is some major reason why you need to leave. Time is not an acceptable reason. If it's 3:00 a.m. and you don't have another reunion to go to, you just stay and talk. This idea is not only with close friends. If, for example, your company's holiday reunion is a lunch, you must go prepared to stay for many hours, possibly through dinner and into the night. (This idea extends to weddings where young and old stay out all night and the bride and groom must provide both dinner and breakfast for their guests)

According to Wikipedia, panetón originated in Milan and comes with several different legends, many including romantic love, of course. I haven't heard any legends told, but I have realized that, whatever the reason, Peruvians are obsessed with getting their Christmas panetón. The dome-shaped bread is sweet and usually has some dried fruit or other delicious ingredients. However, it's just a sweet bread. I have been struggling to find out what the obsession is all about. For example, Arturo often receives clients from taxi drivers (they pick up foreigners at the airport and they need a place to stay). So, yesterday, we bought 20 panetónes for each driver. Every taxi driver I've had in the last two weeks has asked me if I've had panetón and if I love it.
3) Christmas Turkey
For the most part, people don't cook full, big turkeys in their house. It's something that is done for a special occasion. Here, everyone receives a voucher for a free turkey from the company they work for (yes, I received one from my school). There are special areas set up throughout Lima where you can go and claim your free turkey. Many people at school told me they give this voucher to their maids, as a big, frozen turkey can be more of a hassle than anything else. We went yesterday and the system is really incredible. In fact, it's one of the most organized things I've seen in Peru. Of course, my voucher (called a valet here) was for a 9 kg turkey and they only had 7 kg or 13 kg, for which you had to pay extra. Tricky, eh? Anyway, I think the most interesting part about the whole system is that most people don't actually cook the turkeys themselves. After you defrost the turkey, you bring it - in your own pan - to special turkey-baking places and pick it up about five hours later.
Now, I'm off to take a nap. At 5:00 we're having a Christmas dinner (complete with the turkey I got from my school) at the hostel, and then at 10:00 the family Christmas reunion begins. That's right: 10:00 p.m. is when it starts! Arturo told me we will most likely be finished around 2 or 3 in the morning...I think after my nap I'm going to get coffee!
Monday, December 17, 2007
The Best of Times...the Worst of Times
There have been some tough moments in Peru, but for sure the toughest was this past weekend. At the same time, though, it was an incredible weekend.
This was the amazing part.
Of the 20 people who went on this trip (which was an 8 hour drive each way, including an overnight stay), only a handful spoke to me. Some not only didn't speak to me, but actually ignored me when I spoke. There was no friendly encouragement to speak Spanish and despite a one-on-one acknowledgement that it's difficult when 6 people are all speaking at the same time, using slang, and speaking quickly, no one made an attempt to speak to me slowly and clearly. Obviously, Arturo was there, but it was so busy that outside of the car trip, he really didn't see how I was treated and we had no time alone to speak. He also, in his own way, just tried to be encouraging by telling me that it's normal and I should just relax. This was not very comforting. Essentially, I arrived back home and burst into tears.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
A relaxing weekend
Arturo and I even went for a walk in our neighborhood. We realized that it's actually the first time we walked together without an agenda.
Friday, December 7, 2007
Checked off the To Do list!
First: the Fodor's work is finished! Many late nights, many full days and much moaning and groaning on my part, and it is completed and sent to my editor. He told me that he's sure to have some questions in January, but to go ahead and send in my invoice. So, maybe I'll get paid back all of that money I spent already!
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Almost done...but so far to get there...
I just cannot motivate to get this done...but, I am showered, dressed and at the computer at 7:00 a.m. on a Sunday after staying up to work until 1:00 a.m. (of course, this is after procrastinating most of the day and going out for a cup of coffee with a friend).
Arturo has been amazing, putting up with my crankiness and cooking for me. Which, of course, just makes me more cranky because I just cannot write this bloody chapter.
I'm sure it will get done. It must. It will. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can....
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Dad's Visit Part II
We did a lot of the usual touristy things...shopping, visiting a museum, eating out, walking around, etc. All the things I haven't had time for yet in Lima. Needless to say, I had a great time!
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Dad's Visit Part I

* 12:45 a.m. Alarm went off
* 1:00 a.m. Arturo left for the airport

Wednesday, November 14, 2007
My first guest

I'm really excited, but I was thinking about where we should go and realized that I don't know my 'new' city very well. I don't have a favorite restaurant in Lima to take him to. I don't have my favorite cafe. I just don't have my usual 'tourist route' of places to go with visitors (in fact, I've barely explored the city myself).
So, I've decided to accept that I won't be as good of a tour guide as I usually am, but that I should relax and enjoy my Lima with my dad (and pass the torch to Arturo).
Here's a photo of our last visit together in September.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Procrastination

(OK, enough procrastinating...back to work...)
Friday, November 9, 2007
Good worries


Saturday, November 3, 2007
At last -- tofu!
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Just a normal week in Lima
Monday, October 22, 2007
Staff Photos

Sunday, October 21, 2007
The Census Weekend

Friday, October 19, 2007
First Week of Work

Monday, October 15, 2007
The Trip North
Pease read below for a detailed account of the past week and a half.
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=9od46cm.3g2b53vy&x=0&y=-comwfv
I haven´t had time to sort through all the photos, but am sending this out now...because otherwise it will be another week until I finish.
(of course, you may look at the photos and read the blog, but I understand if you just skip to the photos)
We began our trip with an overnight bus to Chiclayo. We left at 9:30 p.m. and were supposed to arrive at 8:30 a.m. Instead, we awoke at our arrival time to discover that we were lost somewhere in Trujillo (a stop about three hours south of our destination). The driver was literally pulling over on the side of the road to ask other drivers. One of the other passengers went down to talk to the driver who explained "You see, the problem is that I'm lost." The entire bus could hear him say this and unanimously broke out in laughter and jokes. As if driving around in circles and stopping every five minutes to ask where to go wasn't enough clues that we were lost. Eventually, we got to our destination about four hours late.
We hopped in a cab and, after about five minutes, hired Pablo to drive us around for the day. We explained that we were updating a guide and we needed to go around the city to many hotels and restaurants. Of course, we didn't mention this was our first time doing this and, many hours later, we were all exhausted and realized this was more work than it sounds. We also quickly realized that three and four star hotels do not hand out free rooms to scrubby looking people who had clearly slept in their clothes (on the bus, though!). However, we did manage to find an affordable room at a place Pablo knew, had a semi-hot shower and finished almost all of the hotels and restaurants, as well as stopping at several of the sites and the Peru Information office for tourist information.